Completing a task is easy, right? You set out a goal, and line up some intermediate steps to get you there. It’s just like walking up the stairs, taking one step at a time, and –voila– you are there. Mission completed. Well, if it is that easy, how come so many of us are still procrastinating? Did you start the new hydration plan yet? Did you go out running, or go to the gym like you had planned? Did you do your mobility exercises? And so on…so what gets in the way?
Wanting, planning or actually doing?
Wanting to do something, and even planning for it is very different to actually getting it done. Too often the instant gratification monkey takes over, and the rational decision maker is no longer in control of where we are going. It is not until the Panic Monster has been activated that we are able to deactivate the monkey.
What am I talking about?!
Tim Urban explains in his humorous and enlightening TED talk how a procrastinators brain work, and what all of these characters has to do with it. And, since we are all procrastinators on one level or another this means that he is talking about you and me…
Ok, so I recognize myself in this. Now what?
Be sure to set a deadline for your goal, this allows the Panic Monster to keep the instant gratification monkey quiet. Tell a friend about it, or even better, get a friend to join you, because this keeps you accountable. Then make the task not seem too daunting by dividing it into smaller pieces. Tim has written about it here in his blog as well.
Here is an easy example.
Goal: To drink 3 Liters of water, with added salt, per day, in 3 weeks.
If you are currently only drinking 1 Liter, 3 Liter a day will seem almost unimaginable. But, can you start your day with 1 big glass of water? Sure!
That is a very attainable step, and to remind yourself to get it done in the early morning, place the cup somewhere where you cannot miss it the night before. Easy!
After a couple of days, maybe your next step is to add drinking a big glass of water as soon as you get home. Again, no big deal, and this is an easy habit to adopt. Well, if you are using a large cup, or glass by now you have almost added a Liter of water to your day, and it was easy, right? Just continue down that path, and you will reach your goal swiftly without even having to activate the Panic Monster.
Wishing you a great weekend – where the instant gratification monkey won’t take over too much of your valuable time 😉
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